For work....
Stop whining about your work. If you are underpaid or your good performance is left unnoticed, then quit. Wake up! No one is picking on you. People are just doing their jobs and their job is not to notice your whining. Do your best whether your good performance is unnoticed.
For love....
Stop whining and nagging to your loved one. If you think you are the only who is trying to make your relationship work and you feel like being left out by your loved one, then quit. Wake up! S/He is just being her/himself. Just continue on what you are doing even your best efforts are left unnoticed.
Thought from the movie "The Devil Wears Prada."